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Vision, Faith & Courage

Leadership Skills – The Ability to Delegate

April 19, 2021 By cyndi4ETS

A few weeks ago I sent you a link to great article on the 10 Core Leadership Skills from the Center for Creative Leadership. This week I would like to delve into one of those skills: the ability to delegate. I quote form the article:

Ability to Delegate

Delegating is one of the core responsibilities of a leader, but it can be tricky to delegate effectively. The goal isn’t just to free yourself up — it’s also to enable your direct reports, facilitate teamwork, provide autonomy, lead to better decision-making, and help your direct reports grow. In order to delegate well, you also need to build trust with your team.

Center For Creative Leadership

How are you at delegating? What makes it tricky to delegate?

  • I you are a small operation with few people
  • Perfectionism
  • Fear of losing control
  • It’s your idea and you want it to be executed your way
  • Trust issues
  • Thoughts like, “I’m getting paid, so I should do the bulk of the work.”
  • Fear of asking too much of volunteers
  • Inexperience in delegating to others

What are the benefits of delegating and how might that look at your Center?

Enabling your direct reports makes them feel trusted and a valuable member of the team.

  • Don’t micro-manage
  • At staff meetings assign the duties, set check-in meetings and let them do their assignments
  • Give your direct reports leadership responsibilities and the ability to delegate to others.
  • Delegating means they might do it differently than you would, but if the goals are achieved, that is what is important.
  • Be available and supportive. Try not to be too directive.

Facilitates Teamwork

If your staff knows you trust them to do the job it is easier for them to ask others’ opinions and advice. It is easier for them to feel free ask volunteers to join in and donate their time.

  • Clearly delegating who is in charge of what during staff meetings creates good lines of communication and who has the authority in what areas or projects.
  • Asking staff members to support and help with projects feels more like teamwork if all staff members, at some point or another, have been given responsibility over a project or aspect of the ministry.

Provides Autonomy

Most people like to know they have some autonomy in their job.

  • Train staff and volunteers well so they clearly know what their jobs are and by what criteria they will be evaluated
  • Let them do their jobs
  • Let them know you are here if they need help
  • Tell them how they are doing

Leads to Better Decision-Making and Growth

The more you trust your staff and volunteers delegate to them, the faster they will learn the ministry and make better decisions with other staff, volunteers and clients.

  • Allow whoever was in charge of the project lead the post-project team evaluation.
  • Allowing volunteers to “try-out” (alone) what they have learned in training with clients leads to better and better client interactions
  • Processing client sessions with volunteers helps them to learn self-evaluation skills which can lead to better interaction decisions when they are with clients.

Builds Trust with Your Team

If you give people the authority, space and time to do the job you have delegated to them, trust will grow and dedication to the ministry and/or special project will increase.

What can you delegate to someone on your staff and/or volunteers?

Filed Under: Vision, Faith & Courage, Volunteer Supervision

What Leadership Skills Do You Need To Work On?

March 16, 2021 By cyndi4ETS

Photo by Miguel Á. Padriñán from Pexels

I found this great article on the 10 core leadership skills from the Center for Creative Leadership and thought I would share it with you all.

Based on their research, they’ve found that great leaders consistently possess these 10 core leadership skills:

  • Integrity
  • Ability to delegate
  • Communication
  • Self-awareness
  • Gratitude
  • Learning agility
  • Influence
  • Empathy
  • Courage
  • Respect

If you would like to explore even more, there are links to other resources in the original article you can find here.  

Integrity

The importance of integrity should be obvious. Though it may not necessarily be a metric in employee evaluations, integrity is essential for the individual and the organization. It’s especially important for top-level executives who are charting the organization’s course and making countless other significant decisions. Our research shows that integrity may actually be a potential blind spot for organizations. Make sure your organization reinforces the importance of integrity to leaders at various levels.

Ability to Delegate

Delegating is one of the core responsibilities of a leader, but it can be tricky to delegate effectively. The goal isn’t just to free yourself up — it’s also to enable your direct reports, facilitate teamwork, provide autonomy, lead to better decision-making, and help your direct reports grow. In order to delegate well, you also need to build trust with your team.

Communication

Effective leadership and effective communication are intertwined. You need to be able to communicate in a variety of ways, from transmitting information to coaching your people. And you must be able to listen to, and communicate with, a wide range of people across roles, social identities, and more. The quality and effectiveness of communication across your organization directly affects the success of your business strategy, too.

Self-Awareness

While this is a more inwardly focused skill, self-awareness is paramount for leadership. The better you understand yourself, the more effective you can be. Do you know how other people view you, or how you show up at work?

Gratitude

Being thankful can make you a better leader. Gratitude can lead to higher self-esteem, reduced depression and anxiety, and even better sleep. Few people regularly say “thank you” at work, even though most people say they’d be willing to work harder for an appreciative boss. Learn how to give thanks and practice more gratitude in the workplace.

Learning Agility

Learning agility is the ability to know what to do when you don’t know what to do. If you’re a “quick study” or are able to excel in unfamiliar circumstances, you might already be learning agile. But anybody can foster learning agility through practice, experience, and effort.

Influence

For some people, “influence” feels like a dirty word. But being able to convince people through logical, emotional, or cooperative appeals is a component of being an inspiring, effective leader. Influence is quite different from manipulation, and it needs to be done authentically and transparently. It requires emotional intelligence and trust-building.

Empathy

Empathy is correlated with job performance and a critical part of emotional intelligence and leadership effectiveness. If you show more empathy towards your direct reports, our research shows you’re more likely to be viewed as a better performer by your boss. Empathy can be learned, and in addition to making you more effective, it will also improve work for you and those around you.

Courage

It can be hard to speak up at work, whether you want to voice a new idea, provide feedback to a direct report, or flag a concern for someone above you. That’s part of the reason courage is a key skill for good leaders. Rather than avoiding problems or allowing conflicts to fester, courage enables leaders to step up and move things in the right direction. encourages speaking the truth.

Respect

Treating people with respect on a daily basis is one of the most important things a leader can do. It will ease tensions and conflict, create trust, and improve effectiveness. Respect is more than the absence of disrespect, and it can be shown in many different ways.

Filed Under: Vision, Faith & Courage

Can Strengthening Their Faith Increase Volunteer Longevity?

February 15, 2021 By cyndi4ETS

Photo by Lisa Fotios from Pexels

Have you ever thought about all the things you are asking volunteers to believe and have faith in?

In addition to having faith in Christ, volunteers must believe or have faith in many areas in order to have staying power at a Pregnancy Center.

I’ve thought of just a few:

  • The sanctity of human life
  • Speaking the truth in love is our calling
  • The importance of ministry over manipulation
  • The Holy Spirit is always by their side when they are with a client
  • Their job is not to save or transform but to love and serve
  • They are being transformed into the image of Christ
  • What they are doing matters in the kingdom of God

Have you ever thought about how to reinforce and strengthen your volunteers’ faith in these areas? I imagine that it could improve how long a volunteer might continue to volunteer.

Consistent communication, support and envisioning volunteers in these faith areas are so important.

How might you do that?

  • Sign up for a free Mail Chimp or Convert Kit account and design a lovely template for a volunteer newsletter and send regular volunteer newsletters that focus on these topics.
  • Pick a faith issue to discuss during each in-service.
  • Address the faith and belief issues during your initial volunteer training. Some of them are already built-in to the Equipped to Serve training.
  • Send volunteers notes and cards to encourage them in these areas.
  • Ask volunteers to re-read certain sections of their training manual to renew and refresh certain topics.
  • Hang inspiring scripture verses up in the volunteer break room that specifically address the various faith issues:
  • Ask volunteers good questions to see how they are doing with a specific faith issue. For example:
    • “Now that you have been volunteering for a while, how do you better understand the difference between ministry and manipulation?”
    • “How have you experienced the Holy Spirit’s help when you are with a client?”
  • Give verbal encouragement to volunteers in a specific faith area. For example:
    • “It might not seem like it some days, but I want you to know what you are doing here matters for the kingdom of God. Thanks so much for coming in today.”
    • “I am so grateful that you have chosen to volunteer with us. I see you reflecting Christ in your care for clients in the following ways . . . .”

How do you build faith in your volunteers? Email me your ideas.  I would love to share them with others.

Filed Under: Vision, Faith & Courage, Volunteer Supervision

How to Create Ideas for Your Donor Letters

January 18, 2021 By cyndi4ETS

Photo by Andrea Piacquadio from Pexels

“Leaders bring vision, faith and courage to coordinated effort.”        Lorne Sanny – The Navigators

One of the constant and never-ending jobs of staff at the Pregnancy Center is to write letters or emails to their donors, volunteers, and churches. There are thank you letters to donors and churches and emails to engage and inspire volunteers during this pandemic. Then there are newsletters to your mailing list, and fundraising letters. The list goes on and on.

Mind Mapping

Something that has helped me in my writing and brainstorming is using a Mind Map.

A mind map is a graphical way to represent ideas and concepts. It is a visual thinking tool that helps structure information thereby helping you to better analyze, comprehend, synthesize, recall and generate new ideas.

In a mind map, as opposed to traditional note taking or a linear text, information is structured in a way that resembles much more closely how your brain actually works. Since it is an activity that is both analytical and artistic, it engages your brain in a much, much richer way, helping in all its cognitive functions. And, best of all, it is fun!

How to Draw a Mind Map

  • Start in the middle of a blank page, writing or drawing the idea you intend to develop. I would suggest that you use the page in landscape orientation.
  • Develop the related subtopics around this central topic, connecting each of them to the center with a line.
  • Repeat the same process for the subtopics, generating lower-level subtopics as you see fit, connecting each of those to the corresponding subtopic.

A Mind Map Example

Here is an example of a mind map of ideas for donor letters based on the Lorne Sanny quote above.

I hope this might give you some ideas for crafting writing prompts to help you with all those letters and emails you must write on a regular basis.

In addition to the mind map ideas above, I have also created a list of topics or prompts that might be helpful. We can all use a little inspiration from time to time. Click here if you would like to download this mind map.

47 Donor Prompts

  1. How Technology Empowers Us at the Pregnancy Center
  2. How we use Social Media
  3. How we engage our community
  4. Who are the most-needy in our community
  5. How our clients use social media
  6. How we spend your money
  7. What I learned at the Heartbeat (CareNet) conference
  8. When I feel frustrated . . .
  9. Book shopping – Buy these books
  10. I want to brag a minute about
  11. Is being pro-life and non-judgmental mutually exclusive?
  12. What we can learn from listening to the opposition
  13. Why it is worth investing in our educational programs
  14. What we do instead of advertising
  15. Why you won’t find __________ at the Pregnancy Center
  16. Does _______ matter to you?
  17. Pro-life trends that impact your ministry
  18. We can handle criticism, especially if you help us grow.
  19. Where do you see us falling sort?
  20. We asked 10 volunteers why they have chosen this ministry.
  21. Listening better and how it will strengthen your relationships.
  22. What we do when there are no clients
  23. And you thought you knew everything about us
  24. Is there more going on here than immediately obvious?
  25. The big picture about (company/site/project)
  26. Revisiting . . . .
  27. Meet the founders
  28. The one big guiding principle that explains sour path of action
  29. How we are thriving/surviving through the pandemic
  30. What hindsight has taught us
  31. What you don’t know about me – yet
  32. Where I’m from: An interview with our staff about their origins
  33. What your kids can teach your about _____________
  34. The biggest challenge I’ve yet to accomplish
  35. Ask us anything
  36. Shared wisdom from __________
  37. Your best questions answered
  38. Interview with ____________________
  39. The people who work here
  40. Why you won’t find ____________ at our ministry
  41. Collaborate with us on _________________
  42. Bring a friend to the fundraising banquet and here’s how you both benefit
  43. Our take on ____________
  44. Things I wish I knew before I started
  45. A client’s journey through the Pregnancy Center
  46. Why we choose to minister as opposed to manipulate
  47. What speaking the truth in love looks like at the Pregnancy Center

25 Volunteer Email Prompts

  1. Letting go
  2. Just when you think you are done
  3. When it all goes wrong
  4. My 5 biggest mistakes in the counseling room
  5. Revisiting . . .
  6. The essential guide to ______________
  7. Helpful websites
  8. Letting go
  9. What do you do to recharge?
  10. Interview with _____________
  11. Another perspective on your current situation
  12. Does ____________ matter to you?
  13. Confessions from past mistakes
  14. Where do you see us falling short?
  15. We asked everyone in the office for one personal failing of their
  16. We’re sorry and here’s how we’ll make it up to you
  17. What to do when you are not seeing clients
  18. Collaborate with us on a selfie project
  19. And you thought you knew everything about us
  20. Ask us anything
  21. A completely different take on ______
  22. The biggest challenge I’ve yet to accomplish
  23. Your best questions answered
  24. Finish strong – What we know about helping you finish strong with clients
  25. How to recover from _____________

Writing Fundraising Letters – Helpful Websites

This one is from the charity Go Fund Me Blog
How to Write a Nonprofit Fundraising Letter That Inspires Action
This one is from Double the Donation
6 Types of Fundraising Letters: Write Amazing Appeals! [2021 Update]

This one is from QGive

Fundraising the Ultimate Guide (with free examples)

Filed Under: Vision, Faith & Courage

Training Deep Dive: Connecting

December 14, 2020 By cyndi4ETS

Image by Free-Photos from Pixabay

Connection

This is probably the one thing that has been missing for most of us during this past year due to the pandemic. I am single and live alone. Most of my family members live in the next state about 45 minutes away. Since March that short distance has felt much wider as it has been very difficult to visit with them. I retired from my full time job at the end of December 2019. I had so many plans to travel and make connections with people that I have not seen in a very long time. Sigh! I know you can identify with my situation. Most of us feel the disconnection in one way or another.

What do I mean by connecting?

It’s being with someone who “gets” me. It’s being with someone who listens and holds space for me. It’s being with someone who withholds judgment and does not feel the need to fix me. It’s knowing I am loved for who I am and not what I have done or accomplished.

Sigh! Isn’t that what we all want?

Isn’t that what our clients want?  (Even if they don’t realize they want it?)

Are your volunteers equipped with the tools to create the safety and trust necessary to invite their clients to connection? 

I hope so.

I have developed a power point that explains the concept of connecting to volunteers in your training program. The Equipped to Serve Seven Fundamentals must be taught but then you must show them HOW to USE those skills when interacting with clients. It is these fundamentals, used skillfully, that will offer a client the opportunity to connect by being open with their volunteer and vulnerable to their own hearts and deep desires.

Connecting requires the cooperation of someone else . . .

which makes it a DESIRE. What kind of prayers can volunteers be engaged in to help them create an atmosphere that would foster client authenticity, honesty and openness? I offer one below:

“Dear Lord Jesus, I offer up my time with clients today to you. I cannot do this without the power of your Holy Spirit. Help me to listen deeply, love extravagantly, and be radically empathetic. Enable me to hold my thoughts captive and withhold judgment. Help me to see your image in every person I interact with today. With your help I intend to speak the truth in love and minister without manipulation. I pray that the eyes of my clients’ hearts would be opened to how much they are loved by you. Today, may my words, meditations and actions be acceptable to you Jesus.”  Amen

I hope you take a minute to look at the connecting power point I have created.

You are free to download and use it in your training. It is animated but you can supply the audio to explain the process. The first slide is based on the client stories outlined in The Client introduction in the Equipped to Serve volunteer training manual. You must have the Power Point software on your computer to view this.

The isolation of this past year has given me a new perspective on the concept of connecting, with my own friends and family as well as others going through a crisis. I now see with new eyes because I have had my own experience of isolation, sadness, disconnection, and loneliness.

Creating an environment that would invite someone to choose connection might be the greatest thing we can do for them.

It is a holy endeavor that changes both parties.

By God’s grace, may it be so!

Filed Under: Seven Fundamentals, Vision, Faith & Courage, Volunteer Training

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