Taking some time during every in-service training is a perfect time to get some practice.
If your volunteers know that they will be utilizing these skills during every in-service, they might work harder to utilize the skills in their lives on a daily basis. How else can the RIGHT skills become ingrained and a natural part of serving and caring for others?
I think the most-often used RIGHT skills are reflective listening, Interpretive listening, and good questions.
Here is a suggestion that will reinforce the skills during each in-service without taking up too much time. This exercise will be a quick call and response for each of the 3 skills.
1. Make a sheet/list of statements for each of the RIG communication skills so you easily have them at hand. Sources for statements might be:
- Exercises from the manual
- Statements clients have said to you
- Case Studies from the manual
- Ask your materials assistance staff or volunteers to give you a list of statements they hear most from the clients they serve.
- Statements do not necessarily have to relate to pregnancy issues in order to practice the skills but they might be the most helpful to volunteers.
2. The number of the statements you have should match the number of volunteers attending so there is no duplicates for each of the skills
3. Start with reflective listening. Briefly review the How To’s of the skill.
4. The trainer reads the skill, then speaks the sentence out-loud while choosing a volunteer and makes direct eye contact with them. It is that volunteer who must respond using the listening skill correctly. This is better than going systematically down the rows because then volunteers know they only have to listen when it is going to be there turn. When you jump around the room and make eye contact, no one knows when it will be their turn and must always be ready, especially if you tell them they might be called upon more than once. In order to save time you really try not to call on people twice but it keeps them alert and thinking of how to respond if they would be called on again.
5. Repeat this for each of the RIG listening skills. Each volunteer should respond once to each of the RIG skills.
If you have the statements prepared ahead of time and review the skills quickly you should be able to get through RIG in a short amount of time. Be sure and gently correct anyone who does not answer using the skill correctly before moving on to the next person. Often people will ask a question when they should be using reflective or interpretive listening. I usually respond by saying, “That’s a great question and we will get to those real soon but right now we are focusing on _________so give it another try.” It is a gentle way to refocus them to the skill you are practicing.
There is so much to remember and practice as a volunteer with the Pregnancy Center ministry.
Your love and service to them should be helping them to remember and practice the most-important skills so they will better serve the clients God sends to them.